

Chastity isn't for the weak, and I won't tolerate self-depre..
Added 2024-03-22 14:45:34 +0000 UTCChastity isn't for the weak, and I won't tolerate self-deprecating talk (outside of a consensual session). Making excuses for why you can't be or do better than you are hinders communication and training. "I must masturbate, or else (insert dramatic chaos here) happens, Goddess!" 💡👆🏻 Think about that statement. Your current self-care regimen may revolve around your penis and the possibility of instant gratification of your wildest fantasies always in your pocket. Viewing smut and jerking off are certainly valid (and almost always readily available) on-the-spot sources of dopamine, norepinephrine, oxytocin, endorphins, and serotonin. Other sources include meditation, eating nutritious food, getting better sleep at night, physical touch with pets or human loved ones, listening to and feeling heard by community members, physical exercise (bonus if it's with loved ones!), sunlight, massage, regular walks around your neighborhood, and other self-care methods. The good feelings from meeting your needs through communal experiences typically last longer than a solo jerk-off session. 💡👆🏻 THIS need for community is why talking to, serving, worshiping, pursuing training with, or having a session with a Domme you admire is much more rewarding and creates a state of bliss that lasts much longer post-experience than the short-lived euphoria from watching clips. Wouldn't you like to know how to manage your emotions without relying on masturbation? Your penis isn't the solution to everything, my pet. Self-control and impulsive behavior improve over time with long-term chastity training. The first stint is never easy, and everyone's journey is unique, but everyone typically reaches a plateau where they can eventually witness and reflect on their thoughts, reactions, and behavior.