I think it important to remember that pleasure is a practice..
Added 2022-07-17 20:02:37 +0000 UTCI think it important to remember that pleasure is a practice. Sometimes I forget this in my busyness, so focused on getting on with my orgasm, that I rush myself out of really enjoying the warmth & depth of my body. If there is something to say about being of the world, the food & sex are worthwhile. I have been trying to take my moments of self love slower. Especially with the changes I have been feeling in my body, I really have been trying to shift my mind into being more patient with myself. There is skill in edging the waters of a blissful cum, suspending yourself in that sensation where you are building, building, and building yourself up to an orgasm. Holding onto that electric feeling which mingles with every cell of your being. Feeling like that anemone, so eager to lose each and every petal with the next breeze, content in its imminent nakedness… I mean there are times when I’m definitely trying to just cum and be done— but fuck, I really enjoy taking my time when I am able. Do you like to edge yourself? Is it easier when someone is holding that space for you? Or are you able to sustain that on your own? Or are you just like, fuck that, and find yourself always going for that quick nut?
